I'm just popping in goodbye really.
I'm not gonna be around till after the weekend.
Me, mum and sis are off to the coast for a few days. We are off to the place where we scattered some of dad's ashes.
We go there every year on the day 18th July. It's been 6 years this year and if I live to be 100 with dementia, I will never forget that day. I'll never forget how I tried desperately to give dad mouth to mouth and how even though I managed to bring him back three times, we still lost him.
We will go and sit on the harbour front which is where we actually scattered the ashes. We always buy some doughnuts and feed them to the seagulls like we did on that day. We will sit and think if dad and talk about past family holidays at Brid when we were young. Most importantly, we will laugh at remembered memories.
Anyway, I will miss you guys. I miss a lot of you already. I have been going to work earlier and thus, not staying up as late to make up for the hours I'll miss for not working this week.
Because of this, I have not been around to chat to some of you much this month. Damn timezones. After this month is done and I have caught up my hours, I will be around to chat more again.
I hope you all have a fantastic time this weekend and if you get the chance to stop and think of the name Eric, I would be so grateful. You all know the story I told about how saying the deceased's name makes them live on in the afterlife according to Egyptian religion.
I love you guys.
Bye for now.
xxxxxx
Wednesday, 16 July 2008
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Thank you so much for my birthday wishes.
I'll be thinking of you over the weekend and sending you my love. Know that you will always be cloaked in warmth and love.
Take care poppet.
A x
I just wanted to stop by to say that I will be thinking of you and your family over the weekend.
You are a wonderful person, and I hope to chat more soon.
Love,
Dawn
Miss T, I hope you and your family will have a wonderful weekend, filled with good memories of your dad. Take care, and just for you, as you requested, I added the name Eric under my blog title.
I hope it puts a smile on your face :)
Lots and lots of hugs and love to you ♥
Miss T,
Thank you, for everything. You've always been around to encourage me and push me along.
I'm thinking of you, and missing you hun.
xoxox;
- 007
<3
Hey, Miss T. Thank you for your support and kind words. I am thinking of you and your family, thank you for sharing about your Dad. And I will say it aloud:
"Eric"
Love to you sweeetie,
L.
Hiya Miss T, you know we are all with you on that beach this weekend. I hope you and your family enjoy your time walking in his memory. I envy you, your courage to embrace such a place. It can hold such ugliness, but also such beauty. I really do envy you for this trip Miss T. Such courage. I hope your trip fills you to the brim, and you come back with more of him inside you than you had before.
And to be very crass, and unserious ---all this licking is making me giggle!
:P Love to you! *LICK!! LICK! LICK!!
miss T!
i am thinking of you!
keep the happy memories at the front, they will hold you strong when you are feeling so sad.
take care.
"ERIC"
Hi MissT! I just wanted to stop in and let you know that I'm thinking of you today.
I can't imagine how difficult it must have been to go through that...
to bring him back 3 times and still lose him.
*big hug*
I hope you can take some comfort in knowing you tried your best to save him; and, you were with him.
You and your family are in my thoughts today. Thank you so much for all your support and your friendship, Caz. It means so much to me. You're such a special person!
Hugs and much love,
Wendy
hi sugar,
I know i´ve been a lazy ass ^^I´m so busy at the moment, you know. first with the whole doctorappintments and now with the wedding of my friend... this evening is the wedding reception and I´m not really in the mood for drunken people ^^
I hope you have a lovely weekend, also it´s a sad reason behind it.
I really hope to catch you online next week, I miss our chats..
take care and love you *hugs*
xoxo
pixie
Wow, I just want to say thanks you so much for your caring and wonderful words.
You guys are so special and I am so grateful to you.
You make the hard times bearable again.
I love you guys.
Hiya Miss T,
I am so glad it went well for you. It sounds like it was a wonderful time, and such a gift to get to be with your mom and sister, sharing it with them. And thank you for sharing with us too. -and I love donuts too. I think that is important! ;p -love to you Miss T
*licks!
Miss T, when you said that my comment moved you so much, it put a smile on my face because I was hoping that it did.
I wanted to do something nice for you because you been such a sweet and wonderful friend from the beginning, and that you deserved to have something nice in order to honor your dad's memory. I'm very happy that I did it :)
Thank you so much for the good luck wishes. Know this: I'm trying the best that I can.
I loves you too *hugs*
Have a wonderful week!
P.S. You are awesome
MissT,
I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to get here.
I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you and your family.
I hope the trip went well and you all found some more peace.
You, your family, your dad, and Dominic are in my thoughts.
I hope to see you around, MissT. :)
hi miss T!
by my pictured guy looking like your Auntie Anne?? did you mean David Bowie??
have a good week miss T!!
Thank you Lewis, BC and Mustard for your kind words. I love you guys.
I love you too FASC and yes, my Auntie Anne looks like DB.
MissT, I miss you!
Know my thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry I wasn't around to be there for you if you needed me. It looks like you had a lot of support from blogbelieve which is amazing.
Sending you lots of love and hugs.
Take care sweetie.
♥ ya.
Thanks Anima sweetie.
You have always been there for me sweetie.
♥ ya too.
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